tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572382432633064458.post6011503665121909446..comments2023-09-18T06:16:30.231-07:00Comments on she waits for whispers: Girls! What are you doing?Tilliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08584027127419955521noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572382432633064458.post-73759798977172905292010-06-14T20:11:35.473-07:002010-06-14T20:11:35.473-07:00I've never been very girly and getting along w...I've never been very girly and getting along with girls has been an interesting time for me. I'm now pregnant with baby number one and it has really shown who may real friends are. <br /><br />PS: Yay feminism.Rachel Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07050119457229635051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572382432633064458.post-7027849307116217162010-06-08T14:52:19.309-07:002010-06-08T14:52:19.309-07:00Girl...I hear ya!! A serpent tongue on a girlfrie...Girl...I hear ya!! A serpent tongue on a girlfriend can ruin entire groups, ministries, fellowship...stop it COLD!! It is very evil stuff that goes on. Loose lips sink ships!!<br /><br />I never got a simply delightful partner?Denise Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09384785194978114337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572382432633064458.post-33483572248894888702010-06-08T12:13:58.908-07:002010-06-08T12:13:58.908-07:00I totally agree, Tillie!
Girls are experts when it...I totally agree, Tillie!<br />Girls are experts when it comes to "psychological warfare", and it SUCKS! Some girls don't think things through before they throw out one rumour after another, or just talk bad about someone behind their back. It's so destructive, but they some girls are just unable to see it. They shut their minds to all sense!<br /><br />xx Sophie<br /><br />http://sophieneechan.blogspot.comSofiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16887348213709234566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572382432633064458.post-72949363319750699472010-06-08T12:12:34.666-07:002010-06-08T12:12:34.666-07:00I hate the way girls think that they're in suc...I hate the way girls think that they're in such dire competition with each other all of the time. We make things so hard for ourselves. You're right, we need to band together not fight against each other xxxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04497757713749752185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572382432633064458.post-91753226376673003422010-06-08T11:42:38.445-07:002010-06-08T11:42:38.445-07:00I teach high school, and I see the cattiness and n...I teach high school, and I see the cattiness and negativity on a daily basis. And what makes matters worse is that even though I am 30, I still see it among my friends sometimes. Girls are evil.Meghanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13566183193529841461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572382432633064458.post-23931969360981999452010-06-08T10:11:04.401-07:002010-06-08T10:11:04.401-07:00I completely agree with you. I have recently let g...I completely agree with you. I have recently let go of some of the negativity in my life and I couldn't feel better about everything. It was so unhealthy haveing it around me every day. Girls can be pretty catty and it is frustrating. I love this post an I hope others ladies can read it and we can all ban together!!<br /><br />By the way I wrote you back and Im sending it off tomorrow :) I absolutey LOVE your cute card and envelope!!<br />xoxo,<br />LindsayLindsayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09914161685767162540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572382432633064458.post-13946158745357016852010-06-08T08:23:26.448-07:002010-06-08T08:23:26.448-07:00I certainly agree! I have always been a girl who ...I certainly agree! I have always been a girl who truly prefers hanging out with guys. There is just SO much less drama with the male gender! Not to say I don't love my ladies- I am lucky enough to have some wonderful girlfriends- but when it comes down to it, I choose to keep the cattiness out of my life.<br />XOXOJessica Coodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14035348275182905063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572382432633064458.post-53396404077248651472010-06-08T05:40:53.238-07:002010-06-08T05:40:53.238-07:00It really doesn't end after high school hey bu...It really doesn't end after high school hey but all I can try to do is I guess be treated how I want to be treated and hope thye reciprocate. I refuse to be part of bitching behind people's back. Sigh xoSharnihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17599582612444566834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572382432633064458.post-28131192865000103842010-06-08T03:02:22.703-07:002010-06-08T03:02:22.703-07:00from one woman to another - please don't stop ...from one woman to another - please don't stop being your beautiful self. keep believing in the good of people. you are wonderful!Faizahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06674592471132332128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572382432633064458.post-62644983141053787002010-06-08T00:47:07.114-07:002010-06-08T00:47:07.114-07:00xoxoxoxoLittle Edenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10037422651221856607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572382432633064458.post-50656597611990422472010-06-07T22:43:23.760-07:002010-06-07T22:43:23.760-07:00I totally did not know you did some women's st...I totally did not know you did some women's studies papers at uni. What did you take?<br />Girl's are dumb I have to agree, I never have these problems with my guy mates and Daniel never has these problems with his mates. I thought I had two really good girlfriends up here and one of them has totally screwed us over and I have doubts about the others intentions to be honest. It never stops hurting when a girl mate ends up being a two-faced bitch but I have come to expect it in a way. Then it is really awesome to find someone who is truly genuine. Remember you can always talk to me if you need to :)Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04271629559056950813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572382432633064458.post-29433489939348162372010-06-07T22:40:35.029-07:002010-06-07T22:40:35.029-07:00here here! You are 100% right Tillie! I too find i...here here! You are 100% right Tillie! I too find it disappointing that we as women can not be more supportive of each other without the hurtful words and overtones. <br />I was just formulating my own post about moving on from toxic friends so your words are resonating with me. <br />In the book I am reading at the moment one of the characters says her only rule is to never say a negative comment about strangers, I think this should include friends too. <br />Ps. You are a beautiful person, I wish everyone was more like you xxAllanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12745067753379692674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572382432633064458.post-36330378987937059222010-06-07T22:26:19.208-07:002010-06-07T22:26:19.208-07:00amen!
i have come to the conlusion that what is kn...amen!<br />i have come to the conlusion that what is known as 'high school drama' rides around in every girls back pocket and never goes away.<br />you see the same cattiness when people go to uni, go to work, my mother told me it was the same as high school when she took me to kindergarten. there will always be unneccessary drama and the only thing to do is trytrytry and ignore it or confront it, even though it can be next to impossible sometimes.<br /><br />hope everything looks up soon darling!<br />xoxpaigehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10113089529028054297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572382432633064458.post-72305292845327483162010-06-07T22:10:02.170-07:002010-06-07T22:10:02.170-07:00I think that while it doesn't end in high scho...I think that while it doesn't end in high school, as we age some people do eventually grow out of the drama and the gossiping. But some people don't at all. When you recognize that someone is that way, it is possible to just phase them out of your life, either completely or to a point where their drama is almost a novelty, because you are no longer so closely involved.<br /><br />I think it's important to remember that not everyone will be your friend for life. Friends drift in and out. Some will be more permanent. Finding those permanent ones does involve some trial and error. While I think your tendency to build walls around yourself is natural, when you feel yourself pulling away, try to remind yourself of the GOOD friends that you have as the result of opening up. For me, they make the others worth it.Miss Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14162684996598517756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572382432633064458.post-34355052091430741352010-06-07T22:06:20.462-07:002010-06-07T22:06:20.462-07:00Hear hear sister! :D
Constantly notice this. As an...Hear hear sister! :D<br />Constantly notice this. As an 18 year old with a 24 year old boyfriend the past 2 years I've been hanging out with women of his age (friends partners etc) at functions and it doesn't get any better. Bitchy girls turn into bitchy women. <br /><br />Why can't people just play nice? Like you said; what does it matter what size/colour/who they're dating.... I get so irritated by people that put others down to make themselves feel better.<br /><br />I think Eleanor Roosevelt said it best; “Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people.”Ebony Arwenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15725735289749191106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572382432633064458.post-4511020893898229622010-06-07T21:32:26.609-07:002010-06-07T21:32:26.609-07:00I couldn't agree more Tille! Women seem to be ...I couldn't agree more Tille! Women seem to be so competative - I'm a proud feminist and I wish we could band together to fight the man instead of being so god damn bitchy all the time!! <br /><br />I think a low point for me was when I heard a friend talking about another girls wedding and said "OMG I couldn't believe what she was wearing - I'd never wear that at my wedding" OUCH!! At that point I realised we could never really be friends. <br /><br />I guess my point is - the true friends will be there through good times and bad. <br /><br />They are the person that comes round to your house with cupcakes when you've just come out of hospital :)Treeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07319274204951528344noreply@blogger.com